Creating Attraction in Women
What kind of first impression do you make when you interact with women you are interested in? Do you have an idea? Do you have absolutely no clue? If you are someone who keeps ending up in the Friend Zone, you may want to
do some research to figure this out. Your dating success depends on knowing how you come across with women you are attracted to.
How can you figure out what you are doing that leads women to conclude they like you, but only want to be your friend? First off, it would be helpful if you asked other men what they notice about your interactions. Women may not tell you if you ask them, as so many women want to spare your feelings. Or they may not know why they are not attracted to you. If you find a woman who is honest with you, that is great. For starters, ask your male friends and acquaintances.
A word of caution: you may not like what you hear. Keep your mind open to learning something that may help you, even if your first reaction is to deny it. Here are some possible responses you may get from the men you ask:
- You talk too much about yourself
- Your conversation is boring to women
- The way you dress is a turnoff
- You care too much about whether they are going to like you and they can sense it
- Your posture is poor and you never look them in the eye; you have no confidence
- You come across as needy
- You try so hard to please them that they get turned off
As a single man, you need to learn how to create attraction in the woman you are interested in. If you cannot do this, you will remain stuck in the Friend Zone. The statements above are just some reasons why a woman may not be interested in you as more than a friend. You may be a perfectly nice guy, but that is not enough to create an attraction.
In addition to asking your male friends to evaluate your behavior with women, observe men who are able to interact smoothly with women. Make it your mission to learn from these men. Their behavior can teach you a lot about what creates attraction in women. In summary, get serious about learning how to attract women with these two suggestions:
- Ask for feedback from your male friends
- Observe men in action who understand the art of attraction
If you are ready to get serious about learning to create attraction in the women you are interested in, check out Facilidating: Dating Made Easy for Men.
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