Archive for the ‘Marriage’ Category
Relationships: empty your cup
September 4th, 2011 | 
Author: If you are filled with your own beliefs, opinions, and ideas and you cannot learn anything new, your relationship would benefit from your emptying your cup.
Dollar download: Creating Happily Ever After: Golden Nuggets from Michelle here.
Get my book: Creating Happily Ever After: A Marriage Manual for What to Do After the Honeymoon is Over at here or get the downloadable version at here.
Posted in Communication skills, Marriage, Relationships | 
Tags: balance in marriage, creating happily ever after, creating happiness in marriage, dealing with marriage problems, fix my marriage, full of your own ideas in marriage, give and take in marriage, help my marriage, marriage advice, marriage harmony, marriage help, marriage solutions, Michelle Vasquez, opinions and beliefs in marriage, relationship advice, relationship coaching, relationship coaching in Huntington Beach California | 
No Comments »
Conflict: change your perspective
If you are constantly arguing with your spouse, you may need to change your perspective. If you are focused on blame, remember that Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Communication skills, Conflict resolution, Marriage, Relationships |
Tags: balance in marriage, change your perspective, change your thoughts and change your feelings, creating happily ever after, creating happiness in marriage, dealing with marriage problems, fix my marriage, give and take in marriage, help my marriage, marriage advice, marriage harmony, marriage help, marriage solutions, Michelle Vasquez, relationship advice, relationship coaching, relationship coaching in Huntington Beach California |
No Comments »
Hope keeps you stuck in a bad relationship
Is hope keeping you stuck in a bad relationship? Do you keep rushing into a new relationship, perhaps with someone you barely know, crossing your fingers and simply Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Marriage, Musings about Relationships, Relationships |
Tags: balance in marriage, creating happily ever after, creating happiness in marriage, dealing with marriage problems, fix my marriage, give and take in marriage, help my marriage, hope and marriage, hope keeps you stuck in bad relationship, I hope he will change, marriage advice, marriage harmony, marriage help, marriage solutions, Michelle Vasquez, relationship advice, relationship coaching, relationship coaching in Huntington Beach California, should i give up hope, should I stay or go? |
No Comments »
Sexual dry spells in men…stress related?
Does your man have less interest in sex than he did when you first got together? Have you made advances only to be rebuffed by him? Before you jump to the conclusion that he is having an affair, take a deep Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Marriage, Relationships, Sexuality |
Tags: balance in marriage, creating happily ever after, creating happiness in marriage, dealing with marriage problems, decreased sexual desire, fix my marriage, give and take in marriage, help my marriage, marriage advice, marriage harmony, marriage help, marriage solutions, men and low sex drive, men and sexual problems, Michelle Vasquez, relationship advice, relationship coaching, relationship coaching in Huntington Beach California, sex drive and stress |
No Comments »
Bad relationships gone good
I was divorced at age 27 from a good man. Would you be surprised that despite having completed a Masters degree in Counseling Psychology, I knew next to nothing about Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Marriage, Musings about Relationships, Relationships, Seven Deadly Habits |
Tags: balance in marriage, Choice Theory, controlling behavior, controlling each other, controlling your spouse, creating happily ever after, creating happiness in marriage, deadly habits, dealing with marriage problems, fix my marriage, give and take in marriage, help my marriage, marriage advice, marriage harmony, marriage help, marriage solutions, Michelle Vasquez, relationship advice, relationship coaching, relationship coaching in Huntington Beach California, William Glasser |
No Comments »
Stop psychoanalyzing me!
No one likes to be told they do something because of some particular reason. It’s great to read self-improvement books and to learn to Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Communication skills, Conflict resolution, Marriage, Relationships |
Tags: balance in marriage, creating happily ever after, creating happiness in marriage, dealing with marriage problems, diagnosing your spouse, fix my marriage, give and take in marriage, help my marriage, junior psychologist, marriage advice, marriage harmony, marriage help, marriage solutions, Michelle Vasquez, relationship advice, relationship coaching, relationship coaching in Huntington Beach California, stop labeling me, stop psychoanalyzing me |
No Comments »
Win the argument, lose the relationship
Even if you are right, are you willing to risk winning the argument only to lose Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Communication skills, Conflict resolution, Marriage, Relationships |
Tags: balance in marriage, being right in a relationship, creating happily ever after, creating happiness in marriage, dealing with marriage problems, fix my marriage, give and take in marriage, help my marriage, marriage advice, marriage harmony, marriage help, marriage solutions, Michelle Vasquez, relationship advice, relationship coaching, relationship coaching in Huntington Beach California, the price of being right, win the argument and lose the relationship |
No Comments »
Squirrel obstacle course; are you as persistent?
Do you have what it takes to create a lasting marriage? Do you give up at the first sign of difficulties? People who are “stubbornly Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Marriage, Musings about Relationships, Problem solving, Relationships |
Tags: balance in marriage, creating happily ever after, creating happiness in marriage, dealing with marriage problems, fix my marriage, give and take in marriage, help my marriage, marriage advice, marriage harmony, marriage help, marriage solutions, Michelle Vasquez, persistence in marriage, relationship advice, relationship coaching, relationship coaching in Huntington Beach California, squirrel obstacle course and persistence, stubborn persistence in marriage |
No Comments »
Princess and the Pea: a Very Sensitive Girl
Do you remember the story of The Princess and the Pea? A prince wanted to marry a real princess. The way the queen mother determined if a particular young maiden was a real princess was to place a pea under 20 mattresses and the put 20 feather beds on top of the mattresses.
In the morning, the queen asked the princess how she Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Marriage, Relationships |
Tags: balance in marriage, creating happily ever after, creating happiness in marriage, dealing with marriage problems, fix my marriage, give and take in marriage, help my marriage, love advice, love tips, marriage advice, marriage harmony, marriage help, marriage solutions, Michelle Vasquez, relationship advice, relationship coach in Huntington Beach CA, relationship coaching |
No Comments »
I don’t feel like being on my best behavior!
Conflict comes from lack of self-control. Often you may not “feel like” being polite in your relationship. What consequences have you noticed as a result of letting your feelings rule your behavior? Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Creative thinking, Marriage, Relationships, Self-control |
Tags: balance in marriage, creating happily ever after, creating happiness in marriage, dealing with marriage problems, fix my marriage, give and take in marriage, help my marriage, letting feelings control your behavior, marriage advice, marriage harmony, marriage help, marriage solutions, Michelle Vasquez, relationship advice, relationship coaching, relationship coaching in Huntington Beach California, ruled by feelings |
No Comments »
