Archive for the ‘single women’ Category
Question from Reader: Online Dating and Safety
Michelle, hope all is well. Listen I need some advise from you I am seriously thinking of meeting men on line. Are there some safe web sites that I can meet them? Do you recommend e-harmony, match.com? Please let me know. I am ready to meet men. O.E. from San Antonio Read the rest of this entry »
Addicted to Love? Seeking the Everlasting High of First Love
Are you addicted to being in love? Do you love the feeling of excitement that happens when you first meet and you are so sure this is the one for you? Do you bask in the glow of that intense feeling that all is right with the world and you have met your soul mate? Might as well face it…you may be addicted to love. Read the rest of this entry »
Are You Flirty Enough?
What is all the hype about flirting and why should you bother? If you are a single woman interested in making a connection with a wonderful single man, flirting is a great way to get noticed. Read the rest of this entry »
Attitude Keeps You Single: Three Beliefs Keeping You From True Love
For some Singles, no one is good enough for them. These Singles have very fixed ideas about who they are attracted to. They tend to have rigid reasons for why they cannot find the one for them. They also bemoan the fact that they are still single. Read the rest of this entry »
LA Single Women: Requesting Your Feedback
My task is to learn as much as possible as quickly as possible so I can provide articles of interest to my readers. I know about and write a lot about relationships, so there will be lots of that in my Examiner site.
I have a lot of questions and I don’t expect you to answer all of them. Please answer whatever appeals to you and know that I appreciate you. Read the rest of this entry »
Love, sex and the male brain
Great article by Louann Brizendine here.
I highly recommend this article to both singles and couples. For women, it will help you understand why men behave as they do.
Still, our brains do not control us totally. We can still make decisions about what to do differently if what we are doing is not helping.
That’s why it’s important to seek to understand instead of immediately reacting. For women, if you understand how a man is wired, you can respond with more compassion. For men, understanding why women do what they do can help you to respond to her in ways that connect the two of you better.
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Is He Really Interested?
I just commented on a post by the Dating Goddess. Here’s the link to see her reply: http://www.datinggoddess.com/move-forward-or-move-on/comment-page-1/#comment-37377
I have copied the question she was asked along with my comment:
“I’ve been seeing a guy for 6 months and we still can’t get farther than a quick peck on the lips or a quick impersonal hug. I’ve told him I want more intimacy but still nothing. What should I do?” Read the rest of this entry »
Singles Focus Group
Soon, very soon, I am going to have a Singles focus group. I need to find Singles in the Orange County/Los Angeles area who are age 35-50 who would like to participate. If you know of anyone who fits this description, please pass along this information to them.
- Single, Divorced, Widowed
- Living in the Orange County/Los Angeles area
- Looking for a relationship (not a hookup or casual sex)
- Frustrated at lack of success, lack of eligible candidates to date
- Wanting to get it right this time around
- Eager to figure this thing out once and for all
- Can schedule 2-3 hours for a face to face focus group with other singles
- Available for one or two follow up phone calls
Please forward this to people you know who may fit this description. I will keep you up to date with more details. Thanks, Michelle
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Dating: Negative Self-Talk
The way you talk to yourself affects your dating success. If you are sure that you can only attract losers or weirdos, you are more likely to attract them. If you have told yourself that you are completely unworthy of love, you are much more likely to end up alone. If you know in your heart that you will attract the right one for you, your chances of success increase.
Screening Potentially Unfaithful Men
If you are a single woman in search of a great man, these are some things to keep in mind. You cannot take a skirt steak and make it into filet mignon. So if you are looking for your prince in a dive bar, you might want to rethink your dating strategy. If you want a quality relationship with a man of quality, you must do your homework.

