In a relationship it is very important to clear the air and get your needs met. This is especially important if you are a woman. Often, in the process, they end up feeling tired and resentful because they are not getting their needs met. Make a pledge to take care of yourself and nurture your relationship through dialogue today!

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You and your spouse are different. You have two different brains! Even if you grew up in similar cultures with similar values, you still will have different thoughts and ways of understanding. In addition, men and women think differently because of socialization and physiological brain differences.

The best way I know to learn about how to relate to the one you love is through dialogue. This involves speaking from your heart and listening with a desire to understand. Give your relationship the gift of deep listening and speaking your truth in a gentle and loving way.

This is especially necessary for women, who, in general, tend to the needs of others before they take care of their own needs. Often, in the process, they end up feeling tired and resentful because they are not getting their needs met. Make a pledge to take care of yourself and nurture your relationship through dialogue today!

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When you choose to make some changes in your own behavior, you can learn to relate from the heart with the one you love in such a wonderful way that you will easily rekindle the love that lead you to say “I do” in the first place!

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Sometimes in your relationship you may get caught up in assuming you know what your spouse intended to do or why s/he behaves in a certain way. This video challenges you to be aware of thoughts that keep you stuck and to examine those thoughts instead of just automatically believing them.

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Life can be so hectic for couples that they go for long periods without being intimate. This can cause grumblings on both sides. If you think scheduling time for sex is unsexy, think again. There are benefits to scheduling time for intimacy. One of the first benefits is anticipation! This video explores some ideas for making scheduled intimacy fun.

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If you are a couple that wants to keep your relationship fresh and passionate, it’s important to schedule regular date nights. Here are some ideas to get you started.

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If you are in a relationship with someone who plays junior attorney when you argue and you feel like you’re always being cross-examined, here are some tips to help you keep your thoughts straight and to calm yourself so that you can state your point of view with greater ease and confidence.

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When you and your honey argue, too many times it can digress into two kids scrapping in a schoolyard. This is the way many couples argue and it’s not healthy. In this video I ask you to decide that you will stay in the Adult Role even if your honey tries to take you with her/him into the Child Role.

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When you criticize your spouse, you chip away at your relationship’s happiness. Criticism is one of the Seven Deadly Habits of William Glasser’s Choice Theory.

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My new book is designed to give you some practical tips and tools for creating your very own happy relationship. Lots of the work in the book involves looking inward and choosing new behaviors that help you to get closer to your spouse.

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