Posts Tagged ‘relationship requirements’
Is Hope Keeping You Stuck in Bad Dating Patterns?
I have worked with too many singles who are so eager to be in a relationship that they do not take the time to understand what it takes to make a relationship last. Even worse, it pains me to hear my own friends say, “I just want to be in the middle of the relationship; I don’t want to wait.” Then they proceed to tell me, often with a sad expression, how they have met a man and have already begun a Read the rest of this entry »
Interview on Voice America
Today Iuliana Lixandru interviewed me on Voice America. Here is a link to the interview. She asked me questions about relationships, singles, widows finding love after loss, limiting beliefs that keep people single.
We talked about Choice Theory, which is something that I love to teach my clients, Read the rest of this entry »
In the Business of Passionate Relationships
My passion as a psychotherapist and relationship coach is to help you achieve your passion. I know that you can have a happy, successful relationship whether you are a couple that has been struggling for years or a single person who seeks to find someone to spend your life with. Read the rest of this entry »
Dating: Negative Self-Talk
The way you talk to yourself affects your dating success. If you are sure that you can only attract losers or weirdos, you are more likely to attract them. If you have told yourself that you are completely unworthy of love, you are much more likely to end up alone. If you know in your heart that you will attract the right one for you, your chances of success increase.
Almost Good Enough Relationships
“Give us clear vision that we may know where to stand and what to stand for – because unless we stand for something, we shall fall for anything.”
~ Peter Marshall, US Senate Chaplain 1947
Do you have a clear vision of your ideal relationship? Do you understand with perfect clarity what you require for a relationship to be happy and successful? If you do not, you are likely to settle for “almost good enough” and spend your relationship trying to make a square peg fit in a round hole.
Screening Potentially Unfaithful Men
If you are a single woman in search of a great man, these are some things to keep in mind. You cannot take a skirt steak and make it into filet mignon. So if you are looking for your prince in a dive bar, you might want to rethink your dating strategy. If you want a quality relationship with a man of quality, you must do your homework.
From Single to Married: What I Learned on My Journey
When I was 27 I divorced a good man for all the wrong reasons: mostly because I was young, dumb, had no faith in my relationship, and had no real relationship skills to speak of. Having made my choice, I began the process of seeking a man that would be right for me. I thought I was ready for a relationship, so I dove right into the dating scene.
Be a Successful Single: Understand Yourself First
If you want to be part of a successful, happy couple, you must first know how to be a Successful Single. Successful Singles take the time to really know themselves. They create a vision of their ideal life. They understand what they require to make a relationship work. Read the rest of this entry »



