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Raise your hand if you want to be accountable with me!

As I was doing my daily walk today, I was thinking about you. Yes, I’m always thinking about my readers, my clients, and potential clients.

I was thinking about how difficult it is to make the changes that you (and I) say you want. I know for a fact that most diets DO work. What doesn’t work for too many people is keeping the motivation going to meet your weight loss goals. Read the rest of this entry »

Negative Beliefs and Dating: Talk Back to These Beliefs

“For there is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.” Hamlet

If you think dating is easy and fun, you are right. If you think dating is hard and painstaking, you are right. How can this be? What do these two contradictory sentences have in common? Two things: you and your thoughts. You are the creator Read the rest of this entry »

Dating Fears: Losing My Personality

Many single women I have worked with have been frustrated with their lack of dating success. One thing I have heard them say leaves me shaking my head in confusion. They tell me that they value their independence and they fear losing their personality to a man. Read the rest of this entry »

First date jitters: free webinar!

Calling all singles!

Do you dread first dates? Do you get the “first date” jitters? Do you wish you could make them easier?

This webinar focuses on developing a plan to turn first dates from dreadful encounters to exciting and easy adventures! Read the rest of this entry »

First Dates: Your Attitude Creates Your Success

You’ve been told that first dates should be quick, preferably under 30 minutes, so you’ve agreed to give it a shot. You’re sipping your Starbucks coffee and making conversation with a fairly attractive man you agreed to meet for a coffee date.

What’s going on in your head while you make small talk with this guy you said “yes” to meeting for Read the rest of this entry »

Is Hope Keeping You Stuck in Bad Dating Patterns?

I have worked with too many singles who are so eager to be in a relationship that they do not take the time to understand what it takes to make a relationship last. Even worse, it pains me to hear my own friends say, “I just want to be in the middle of the relationship; I don’t want to wait.” Then they proceed to tell me, often with a sad expression, how they have met a man and have already begun a Read the rest of this entry »

Dating Life Complicated? Enlighten Yourself

Is your dating life complicated? Do you push away good men when they show the first sign of doing something less than perfect? Do you wonder why you cannot find any men of quality to date? The answer may be closer than you think.

When I was in my 20′s and dating, I thought all I needed to do was to dress sexy and find an attractive Read the rest of this entry »

Seek to Understand Yourself First as a Single Person

When I was in my late 20′s, freshly out of a divorce from a good husband I left out of ignorance and immaturity, I was determined that I was going to find a new relationship with a great man. I thought I knew it all (you thought teenagers knew it all, but I carried that arrogance into my 20′s) and having recently graduated with my Masters in Counseling Psychology, I was convinced I needed to seek a Read the rest of this entry »

Find and keep the one for you!

Conscious Dating: Relationship Success Training for Singles

For Finding the Love of your Life and the Life that you Love

Stage One: Readiness
3 week training on Wednesdays, 5:00-7:00 PM, October 6 to October 20, 2010 Read the rest of this entry »

Need to be independent

I’m going to step out  on a limb here and say that independence is over-rated. It’s great to be self-sufficient, but if you are going to create a loving relationship, inter-dependence seems to fit better as far as I can tell.

I know you are a strong woman and you can do anything a man can do. The beauty for me, being in a relationship, is that I don’t have to do all those things myself. I can let myself be helped when there are things that are hard for me to do. I don’t have to be strong all the time.

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